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Writer's pictureMJ Fievre

Bullied at School: A Mother's Fight Against Her Sons' Silent Battle

Discovering her sons are facing bullies at school, this mother is wrestling with a mix of fury and helplessness.

Hey MJ,

I'm reaching out in a state of distress and confusion. Recently, I had a heart-to-heart with my sons, aged 11 and 8, and was shocked to learn that they've been victims of bullying at school. My elder son even disclosed that he was beaten up by a group of boys during lunchtime a while back. I'm just now hearing about these incidents, and it's left me reeling with a range of emotions.


Currently, my sons live with their father, which adds to my feeling of powerlessness. I am furious about what they've been going through, deeply saddened for them, and struggling with how to support them from a distance.


I'm seeking advice on how to best approach this situation. How can I empower and support my children in managing this bullying? Also, what would be the most effective way to engage with their school to ensure this doesn't happen again? Any guidance on navigating these turbulent waters would be greatly appreciated.


Thanks for lending an ear and offering your wisdom.


Sincerely,

Anonymous


Dear Anonymous,

Discovering that your children are facing bullying is deeply troubling, and it's natural to feel a mix of fury and helplessness, especially when you're managing this from a distance. Here are some straightforward steps you can take to effectively support your sons and empower them to overcome this challenge.


First and foremost, establish a consistent communication routine with your sons. Whether it's a daily phone call or a chat via a messaging app, make sure they know they have a safe space to share their experiences and feelings with you. This regular check-in not only keeps you informed but also reinforces to your sons that they are not facing this alone.


Simultaneously, it's crucial to engage directly with their school. Coordinate with their father to present a united front. Set up a meeting with school administrators and teachers to discuss the specific incidents and understand the school’s measures for handling bullying. It's important to ask for a clear plan of action and regular updates on how the situation is being addressed. Ensure all incidents are documented and follow up to see the school's anti-bullying policy in action.


Empower your children by teaching them how to respond to bullying. This doesn't mean encouraging them to retaliate, but rather equipping them with strategies to seek help from school authorities and assert themselves safely. Additionally, guide them to develop supportive friendships and engage in extracurricular activities. These not only offer a reprieve from the stress of school but also help in building their self-esteem.


Consider providing your children with resources that offer advice and coping strategies for dealing with bullying. There are numerous websites and books dedicated to this topic. In cases where bullying has significantly affected their well-being, don’t hesitate to seek professional counseling. A therapist can offer them a safe space to process their experiences and develop resilience.


In severe cases where the school's response is inadequate, exploring legal options might become necessary. This is a last resort, but it's important to be aware of all the tools at your disposal.


Your involvement and proactive approach can make a significant difference in how your children cope with and overcome bullying. It’s a challenging situation, but with clear, consistent actions and support, you can help guide your sons through this trying time.


Kenbe la,

MJ

ABOUT "HEY, MJ"

In 2020, the "Badass Black Girl" book series author M.J. Fievre began receiving correspondence from a varied audience, including parents, young adults, and teens. Fievre, an established author and speaker, is known for her insightful engagement with themes relevant to these demographics. The communication, primarily through Facebook or the Badass Black Girl inbox, revolves around topics covered in her books and public talks. These interactions display a rich tapestry of experiences and viewpoints, highlighting the author's impact on her readers.


“Hey, MJ” is a platform created to foster a meaningful connection between M.J. Fievre and her readers. It offers a forum for open dialogue, personalized advice, and the sharing of collective experiences. The platform's effectiveness is rooted in Fievre's expertise as an author and speaker. Her work, particularly in the "Badass Black Girl" series, showcases her deep understanding of the challenges and triumphs faced by her audience. Her background as an educator and her commitment to empowering young voices further enhance her ability to offer relevant and empathetic responses.


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