• MJ Fievre

Use Your Mistakes to Grow and Flourish

Dear Badass Black Girl,


Learn to be okay with your mistakes. Don't let them block your efforts to become your best version of yourself. Instead, allow every mistake, every shortcoming, every failure to become a source of inspiration to do better and a chance to learn new lessons in life. Remember: If you don't learn to fail, you will fail to learn.


When things don't work out, tell yourself:

  1. Remember some of your successes. Nobody is a "total loser."

  2. Now, think about a particular mistake. While giving yourself permission to feel crummy for a little while, ask yourself: What lesson can I draw from this experience?

  3. What steps can you take to correct the situation? If you said something stupid on a group chat, apologize. If you're the one who accidentally spilled Clorox on your sister's favorite blouse, acknowledge your mistake and replace the shirt if you can.

  4. Now, imagine yourself in the future when this mistake no longer matters: You have grown from the experience. How much did it really impact your life? How do you feel?


"Mistakes are a fact of life. It is the response to the error that counts."

-Nikki Giovanni


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A creator of safe spaces, and an initiator of difficult conversations, M.J. Fievre, B.S. Ed, spent much time building up her Black students, helping them feel comfortable in their skin, and affirming their identities. Her close relationships with parents and students led her to look more closely at how we can balance protecting our child’s innocence with preparing them for the realities of Black life. When―and how―do you approach racism with your children? How do you protect their physical and mental health while also preparing them for a country full of systemic racism? She began to research the issue and speak to school counselors and psychologists to find (and apply!) strategies parents and teachers can use with their children to broach uncomfortable but necessary topics.



M.J. is the author of Badass Black Girl, a daily dose of affirmations for Black Girls.


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