I Will Let Myself Be Loved
In photos with my sister, I am always bigger:
heavier, thicker boned, thoughtless in the way
I claim space. She is skinny, but fills the air
beyond the boundaries of her delicate frame.
My sister is water to my fire.
She’s the yin to my shambolic yang,
when inordinate rage & breath-catching irritation
build within me,
when my fury comes like one hundred horns
& one hundred bells,
my nerves a chorus
of plucked strings,
a quiver of quivering. When the blood
in my fingertips pulse,
& my jaws cramp from clenching
tight to keep my screams
quiet from the night,
she is safety, warmth,
& temperance in a dangerous world,
a world in which I can never trust
myself, because even a day that seems mundane
holds in its purposeful
or dreamy breaths
the possibility of precipitous rage, the heaves
from my body terribly loud: frightening.
My sister hugs me & I let her, & I hold on,
her heartbeat against my chest. Its beautiful,
crazy boom boom. A drum beating.
A cup of sparking fireflies.
As I cry, her fingers nestle
in the ridges of my spine.
Not all arms are an oasis,
but some arms
can span the vast contradictions
of who I am,
& they hold me safe.
At the farmers’ market on Calle Ocho,
our stomachs gurgle like lava lamps,
so we buy cherries & spit the pits at each other.
The shells, glistening with saliva & clinging fruits,
freckle the Miami asphalt.
We lick juice from the webs between our fingers,
take in the sweet scent.
How miraculous this world.
We see it all the way we want to be seen.
I was of the water,
you were of the air,
and we both hungered
for a place we didn’t remember.
There was a craving
in your joints, José Armando,
as I opened up in waves
and left you dizzy
by the deafening roar
of the blood in your veins.
—as I walked away.
to your shores,
this time for good.
And I’ve found you:
of my summer storms.
I play the banjo
on your naked thighs,
your magnificent calves,
your dimpled knees,
alive in the filtered
the mango trees—
thick with fruit.
The sun pulls
into its heat,
bare of clouds.
(Cover art for this poem by Frank Morrison)
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